So I have been attempting this dating thing as of late. Funny enough, turns out that it is not working out so hot.
Shocker.
Beyond the initial, “hey, wanna make out?” stage, I am finding myself becoming easily frustrated with the women I have been debating for two key reasons.
1. Take Some Initiative
I love to talk, and I am really good in most social settings at initiating conversation about… anything. It’s my gift that I honestly use to the fullest extent. This just so happens to work out great when getting most women too, so win-win for me.
But damn ladies, I can’t keep initiating the conversation. At some point in time you have got to buck up and say something first, there is only so much legit topic starters I can come up with before the well runs dry and all I can come up with is word vomit.
Seriously, a text from y’all first that day simply saying, “hey, wats up” would be quite nice instead of me having to do it everyday.
Is that really asking for much?
2. Jealousy Much?
I talk to men and women, a lot of men, and a lot of women. I am friends with both sexes, and I often times hang out with both sexes.
I see no issue with this.
BUT, *shocker* turns out most high school chicks really aren’t cool with their “men” talking to other “women”.
Get over it.
Let me talk to whoever I want to talk to, and if you have a problem with it, I simply don’t know what to tell ya ladies. Chances are the people I am friends I have liked and been friends with longer than I have known you. This means you default lose.
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Criteria For Dating Me
So I have been attempting this dating thing as of late. Funny enough, turns out that it is not working out so hot.
Shocker.
Beyond the initial, “hey, wanna make out?” stage, I am finding myself becoming easily frustrated with the women I have been debating for two key reasons.
1. Take Some Initiative
I love to talk, and I am really good in most social settings at initiating conversation about… anything. It’s my gift that I honestly use to the fullest extent. This just so happens to work out great when getting most women too, so win-win for me.
But damn ladies, I can’t keep initiating the conversation. At some point in time you have got to buck up and say something first, there is only so much legit topic starters I can come up with before the well runs dry and all I can come up with is word vomit.
Seriously, a text from y’all first that day simply saying, “hey, wats up” would be quite nice instead of me having to do it everyday.
Is that really asking for much?
2. Jealousy Much?
I talk to men and women, a lot of men, and a lot of women. I am friends with both sexes, and I often times hang out with both sexes.
I see no issue with this.
BUT, *shocker* turns out most high school chicks really aren’t cool with their “men” talking to other “women”.
Get over it.
Let me talk to whoever I want to talk to, and if you have a problem with it, I simply don’t know what to tell ya ladies. Chances are the people I am friends I have liked and been friends with longer than I have known you. This means you default lose.
K, there is my criteria. Rant over.
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